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Even though it is still three days before Thanksgiving as I
write this, a Christmas card has already arrived at our home.
While I always look forward to hearing from old friends –
in some cases these cards or letters are our only connection –
there is one letter that I do not look forward to receiving.
The sender is a member of a congregation Steve and I served in
Illinois, and every year this man’s Christmas letter is
basically a rant about how our culture no longer “keeps”
Christmas the way he thinks they should. He is very upset that
children are no longer being taught Christmas carols in school
and that some stores now have “holiday trees”
rather than Christmas trees. And don’t even get him
started on the phrase “Season’s Greetings!”
I have to disagree with my former parishioner’s views for
a few reasons. First, I do not think it is the responsibility
of the broader culture to keep Christ in Christmas. That is
our job in the church. It is our job to make
sure that our children know the stories and carols and
religious customs of Christmas – not the job of the
public schools. And while some of us may be nostalgic for the
days when public school music teachers could teach Christmas
carols in class, we need to ask ourselves how we would feel if
Christianity were a minority religion in this country and our
children were forced at school to learn music from another
religious tradition. I doubt that we would appreciate that.
The Good News of Jesus is intended to be a gift freely offered,
not something forced upon others. And if – as Christians
– we are supposed to treat other people the way we want
to be treated, then forcing Jewish children and Muslim children
and Buddhist children to sing Christian hymns in school is
actually un-Christian. So, by taking Christmas carols out of
the classroom, we are not being “politically correct.”
Instead, we are recognizing the difference between church and
state, rendering unto Caesar that which is Caesar’s, and
unto God that which is God’s.
But another reason I do not want to push for the broader
culture to embrace the idea of “keeping” Christmas
is that they have done such a bad job of it so far! One of the
reasons I love Thanksgiving is that, other than the grocery
stores, the commercial forces have pretty much left it alone
because they can’t figure out a way to make much money
off it. Instead, merchandisers ignore Thanksgiving, and begin
earlier and earlier each year to push their message of “Here
is how to purchase the perfect Christmas!” So,
while we in the Church are beginning the season of Advent –
the season of waiting patiently for God to do what God will do
in God’s good time – the stores fill their shelves
with Christmas items even before Halloween. And, of course,
all these items will be removed as soon as possible after
December 25 since, in the minds of commercial America,
Christmas ends that day. And, sadly, many people are so sick
of Christmas by the time it arrives, they can’t wait to
take down the tree and let life get back to normal. As if life
after Christ arrived would ever get back to normal!
I don’t think the Church will ever get Christmas back
from the malls. Christmas has for too long been co-opted and
exploited by the broader culture. In fact, I’ve noticed
in recent years that what has happened to Christmas is now
happening to Hanukkah, a minor Jewish festival – it, too,
has been noticed by merchandisers eager to have another holiday
to push sales. But while we will never get the malls to leave
Christmas alone, that does not mean that we need to let them
define Christmas for us. We can choose to resist the pressures
of the broader culture and keep Christ in Christmas in our
homes, our families, our church family. We can light our
Advent candles and choose to engage in the self-examination,
reflection, and preparation of our hearts that is the spirit of
Advent. We can find ways to spend our time lovingly
rather than our money unwisely.
It’s up to the
Church to keep Christ in Christmas. And we do.
Fondly, Cynthia Simmons
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